Understanding Love

Understanding how to love ourselves has made us more conscious and curious about the lives of others—our loved ones and the communities we build together. That is why Amaris Vitae is also a shared LIFESTYLE and IDENTITY. This, we find, is what makes love challenging. Everyone holds a different definition of love, so we believe it is important to understand one another’s definitions and how they relate to our own. Moreover, we all carry our own traumas, lived experiences, values, beliefs, and behaviors. To love someone while reflecting on how these aspects influence how we all move through the world is part of this process. We have been taught to categorize everything, but this limits how we see ourselves in relation to the change needed to better the world. We believe we can create more meaningful lives when we meet people where they are, come to a shared understanding of where we want to go, and find that the process of making change becomes a little easier.

Through Amaris Vitae, we create projects, facilitate events, and celebrate life with equity, reciprocity, accountability, truth, and liberation at the forefront. These manifestations are designed to open new exchanges, conversations, and movements, as we navigate toward new, pro-human ways to live—beneficial for all, not just a few. We also look to our history and the whispers of our indigenous roots to guide our path forward.

To live an Amaris Vitae lifestyle arrives at a time in our history when everything is being rethought and transformed. It is a time when we decide how to make the world better for generations to come. Change starts with us…how will we contribute by living a life of Amaris Vitae?

A.U.R.A.: The Algorithm of Peace

In a world filled with fast-paced decisions, emotional reactions, and information overload, we often seek clarity, peace, and a deeper connection to our purpose. This is at the heart of Amaris Vitae, and it is guided by a powerful internal compass: the A.U.R.A. algorithm.

Much like a computer algorithm—a structured set of steps used to solve problems or carry out tasks—A.U.R.A. provides a formula or a set of instructions that help you live more intentionally, peacefully, and authentically. Just as software algorithms help machines function efficiently, A.U.R.A. helps humans function with compassion, self-awareness, and wisdom.

The Algorithm Behind Amaris Vitae

In computer science, an algorithm is a precise sequence of instructions designed to perform a specific task. Algorithms are the core of everything we do digitally—they guide search engines, drive social media feeds, and shape the behavior of artificial intelligence. Their role is to optimize and streamline actions toward a desired goal or outcome.

But algorithms aren’t just for computers. We run internal algorithms every day. Think about what happens when you’re faced with stress or conflict. Some people rely on the algorithm of avoidance—ignore it, and it will go away. Others turn to retail therapy, overwork, or substances. These are conditioned responses, habitual scripts the brain follows to cope or feel safe. Some algorithms lead to temporary relief but long-term disconnection.

A.U.R.A. rewrites that code.

A(ccept)→ U(nderstand) → R(eflect ) → A(ct)
These four phases form the rhythm of inner transformation and outer change. They are the algorithm behind Amaris Vitae—a life lived in awareness, compassion, and clarity.

Let’s unpack each step.

Why A.U.R.A. Matters Right Now

The world is changing quickly-Systems are unraveling, and new possibilities are emerging. To step into the new possibilities, it’s important to build bridges to get there. To do so, practicing acceptance has to be a daily practice. A.U.R.A. helps you accept reality—not to stay stuck in it but to build on it.

As communities face conflict, transformation, and expansion, A.U.R.A. becomes a communal practice. Imagine if more people accepted the moment, tried to understand it deeply, reflected on what mattered most, and then acted with kindness and wisdom. How different would the world be?

As individuals, A.U.R.A. gives us the tools to handle grief, change, joy, and everything in between. It helps us stay true to our values while making space for others. It invites us to choose love over fear, courage over comfort, and clarity over confusion.

A.U.R.A. is the bridge between insight and embodiment.

A.U.R.A. as the Algorithm of Peace

What does it mean to love yourself and others? Not just when it’s easy, but when it costs you something? It means becoming aware of your patterns—your internal algorithms—and choosing new ones. It means cultivating peace not as a passive state but as a practice. A.U.R.A. is your inner software update. It’s a return to presence. To purpose. To practical, lived spirituality.

It reminds you: you are not here to escape life. You are here to enliven it.

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